Archive | June 2015

Dating Women Who Don’t Speak English

Language barrier may seem a huge impediment to successfully dating foreign women, especially those who cannot speak English. Nothing could be further from the truth. While verbal communication plays a role in helping men and women understand each other, it is not the only requirement. In fact, most communication between humans occurs non-verbally. A foreign escort will not necessarily like you because you can speak her language. Of importance is how you present yourself and the ability to make her feel valued and appreciated. The following are some practical tips to help you get foreign women lusting after you.

Body Language

A huge component of communication takes place non-verbally. Renowned body language expert Allan Pease notes that verbal communication accounts for less than 35 percent of total communication, the rest is non-verbal. What does this mean? Speak less, do more. Sitting posture, facial expressions, hand gestures, and head movements will convey your message better than words. For instance, crossing your arms over your chest, or crossing your legs will indicate you are defensive or uptight. On the other hand, sitting with open arms, palms, and legs conveys openness, warmth, and affability. Although some gestures are universal, some have different meanings across different cultures. Be sure to inquire about meanings of gestures before using them extensively.


In relation to body language, your physical appearance goes a long way in determining your attractiveness especially for London escorts. London escorts are easily attracted to clean and well-dressed London men. It shows that you can take care of yourself, and that means you can take good care of her too.  Escorts in London will probably size you up before you even get to talk to her. Dressing well does not mean you have to dress expensively. Designer brands will sure make you look suave. However, what matters most is dressing in clean and modest outfits.

Local Culture

People get impressed when a foreigner makes attempts to understand their culture. This can be a huge turn on to your potential date. Learn how to greet your escorts in London the local way, appreciate popular local foods, and show her how amazing everything is about her country. Pay attention to local norms and customs so that you do not offend your date before you even get started. Importantly, learn some local words. Escorts from London do not have to master the entire language of their customer, just make attempts to say a few words. You will charm foreigners with your lame attempts at uttering some local phrases.

Do Things Together

Lack of much verbal communication, for obvious reasons, does not mean your date with voluptuous escorts in London has to be boring and dreary. In fact, it will help limit over-communication, a turn-off in most dates. Once you have established good rapport with your date, ask her for a dance, play snooker, or ask your escorts in London to teach you how to prepare a local dish. Activities help banish forced chatter and stem frustration from the inability to understand each other verbally.

Next time London escorts want to approach a foreign companion, language barrier should not deter you. Your exoticism may in fact be a major turn on.

Putney escorts dominate my life

Dear Dr Bliss

I have been reading the Better Sex Guide for sometime but I have never written to you before. I am contacting you because I think that I have a problem. You see, I have a passion for dating Putney escorts  just because they are so dominate with me. I like being put in my place and told what to do, but that is not the only problem… I like being punished as well.

I didn’t know that I was into dominance play until a few years ago when I watched a porn video with a dominance element in it. I got so turned on that I didn’t know what to do with myself. After that date, I decided to explore this part of my sexuality. To my shock and horror I discovered that I loved it and ever since then I have been visiting Putney escorts to satisfy my craving. And it is a craving, it is not a need. It seems to come all the way from deep inside of me, and it is almost something that wants to come out and play.

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I am seriously beginning to wonder if there is something wrong with me. On the other hand, I am a really normal guy and I enjoy healthy sex. I have a really responsible job with lots of staff and I actually enjoy looking after people. So, I find it so difficult to understand why this very naughty side of me wants to come out and play.

Can you help please…

Thank you from Nick
Dear Nick,

Thank you for your email but I honestly feel that you are worried about nothing. I know many people who are into dominance play, and they really enjoy it. I would urge you to think of it as play and not a way of loving somebody. Sexy dominance play is very popular in a lot of relationship and is nothing to be ashamed about. We all might enjoy having our bums smacked but sexual dominance play takes it a step further.

In your email you mention that you enjoy healthy sex, and this is one of the reasons why I think that you don’t have anything to worry about. As long as no one gets hurt, dominance play is fine. You also mention that you have a responsible job, and could it be that dominance play is your way of letting go? To be honest I think that you don’t have anything to worry about, and you should enjoy your dominance play with your Putney escorts. I am sure that your Putney escorts would tell me that you are a nice guy, and they enjoy meeting you.

It sounds like you do really care for people, and this is why you are so worried about this part of your personality. Just remember that this is only one small part of your personality, and I know that Putney escorts who specialize in dominance appreciate this. Enjoy your dominance play and stop feeling guilty about it.